¡Feliz año nuevo! and ¡Feliz Navidad!
In our family, Christmas is not over. The twelve day season extends through New Year’s Day until Dia De Reyes, or Epiphany, when the three wisemen traditionally deliver gifts to Mexican children, before continuing on their way to find Baby Jesus.
Three Kings Day shares similarities to a visit from Santa Claus: instead of stockings, children place their shoes outside; and instead of milk and cookies for the jolly old elf, they make sure to leave hay for the camels.
I never did this growing up. But multicultural families like ours can have the best of both worlds, and now my kids find gifts from St. Nick and Los Reyes Magos—excellent bookends to the Christmas season.
The holidays present a natural opportunity to create family traditions and incorporate elements of my husband’s Mexican culture. (I’m less worried about equal time for American culture, or Southern culture or things from my family of origin, since that’s the dominant culture we live in and likely what I’d naturally do.)
I try to be intentional about creating this balance, and find it fun and interesting to research these new-to-me traditions. There are plenty to choose from.
We’ve enjoyed these children’s books that showcase Mexican or Latino holiday traditions:
As we merge traditions and sort through many good options, the holidays can also be stressful. Unfortunately all the fun things to do, to bake, and to buy can pile up into overwhelming stress and anxiety, especially in a family with young children.
For the holidays to remain a time to enjoy peace and goodwill, rather than anything but, it helps me to keep things simple.
Here are three valuable suggestions:
1. Look at the calendar.
I like thinking of Advent as a time of preparation, as it traditionally is in the liturgical year, and trying to extend Christmas its full twelve days through Epiphany. (As this author points out, you can get great toy prices this way!)
We also have two birthdays to celebrate in December, as well as school programs, New Year’s events, and family visits. We pencil it all in and try have a realistic view of the calendar and what’s possible. Then:
Next- #2 Establish Order of Operations and #3 Engage the Senses (i.e. Food)...and more photos!
About the author
Josie works at home and from home---wrangling two daughters and a baby son, and writing on parenthood, faith, and culture. She appreciates the hard work it takes to raise a multicultural family, and has a passable knowledge of spanglish. Originally from Memphis, Josie remained on the east coast after studying English and religious studies at the University of Virginia. She met her husband Israel on Capitol Hill in DC, and their dream is to open a Southern-Mexican fusion restaurant one day (but only if her suegra is available to cook).